This counts as a revolutionary act as a person of size in 2017: stating to the world that you should swipe right if you’re attracted to me and not worry that you’re going to forever be known as a chubby-chaser.There’s this misconception in online dating that plus women can’t have standards, value, confidence.I’ve even had people ask why I don’t mention my body type in my profile so that “people can search better.” The simple reason: I’m not a category. I’d like to think we’ve moved past reducing plus-size bodies into their own dating nook; safely cornered away as to not be grouped with the coupling of straight-size people.But I’m reminded on a daily basis through messages, DMs, and even personal emails that to find me attractive is fetish-based — something I should The issue doesn’t spawn from the amount of full-length photos I have on my profile — there are enough photos of me; my Instagram is a literally dedication to what I look like.The issue is that I don’t immediately put a warning label for my body in my profile.While some may consider this an act of size deception, it’s more of an act of considering myself part of the norm and not a niche.He's accused of beating his then-pregnant ex-girlfriend.Law enforcement sources tell us XXX made multiple phone calls while behind bars, which were recorded ... We're told evidence from those phone calls led to the new charges. XXX was sent back to jail last week because the new charges constituted a violation of his bond.
prosecutors believe the alleged witness tampering went down in October 2016 ...My way of being like, — the world’s saddest caveat to basically admitting that I know you’re settling and . And that’s how I thought I’d have to live out my existence: being someone’s settling point, fetish, one-time try. But I’m constantly thinking about the why I can’t just live without having my size be proverbially attached my attractiveness or worth.I’ll put it this way: Maybe just stop and ask yourself why you’re mentioning it. I wasn’t expecting to be so attracted to a bigger girl.We can’t just be looking for a date, a hook-up, a side-piece.We don’t deserve a chance, we aren’t good enough, and we should be happy for any attention that we get.